Help getting wife to swing

I would also be willing to help a guy (or girl) setup the ideal conditions for recreational sex and see what happens? Something like; since I am an engineer, very good with my hands and always enjoy using my talents to help others. Maybe you can invite me as an old friend to help you out as a handyman (painting, cleaning, car work). Something like, while your wife (or husband) is watching us rotating the car tires you act like you strain your back and I will say that "I had some theropy training while in the military in europe" and offer to give you a a back massage.... then we take it from there. I will enjoy being with you and my wife (or your wife)if it works out but, I can not promise, it would have to be up to her and about pleasing her first. I am new at the bi thing so acting rude, aggressive or anything that hurts would be asking for trouble. We are in Norton. What town are you in? I would like to meet in person to see it you are real and if we can get along ok. I work in Mansfield, get off at 4:30 so any time after that would be good. I am also an early riser and usually workout between 5:30 & 6:30am so I have plenty of time to meet in the morning too. Most of my weekends are free as well.

My wife doesn't know about me on Adult Matchfirm. I would want my wife to believe that this was just happening naturally. I think that if she ever suspected a setup it would not be good. It would have to happen slowly and be all about pleasing her with no pressure for anything more then what she wants. I did have several threesomes with my first wife (although not much male to male contact) and it was a lot of fun and I would be open to trying again. Please understand that I am not into acting gay but I will not mind male to male contact like sucking a guy off, sloppy seconds or eating cream pies if it happens. So I am just very Bi-curious however and would be like to be with a couple in a trio or foursome, but my wife so far has no interest in making this happen yet, maybe we can get her to try a trio with a guy or girl if the conditions are right. My wife does know all about my ex-wife and that I enjoyed wife sharing with her. She knows that I am kind of a candualist and totally open and I really hope we can get her to try a trio or foursome.

I do have a couple of questions that we should think about: Do you think your wife will be ok with me being married and my wife not knowing about us playing at first? If we setup your wife, how will you feel when your wife see's me nude? How do you think she will react? We came from europe where my wife and I are used to open nudity as "normal". I sure don't want to be arrested. I really want to be able to "just let things happen" so I wonder if you think your wife would be open to you making love to my wife? I also wonder, how will your my (or your)wife feel if we end up both pleasuring her together?

For me I am just a normal middle aged man, healthy and disease free. I am a white Caucasian with short brown hair, clean shaven, five eleven, one hundred and seventy pounds with a muscular build and a small penis (incase that ever matters). I work out and exercise at least three times a week to stay fit so I have a very healthy and clean body.

My hot wife is a blonde with a very athletic figure, healthy and disease free. She is five feet four inches tall, around one hundred pounds, C cup and is very firm. She is straight (so far).

So if you are looking for the same kind of things, we should meet and see if we can become good friends. We could start with a public meeting, just to talk and get to know more about each other. Maybe for coffee, drinks or a simple walk together. Can you recommend a nearby place to take my wife dancing? Maybe we could meet there or in some other "in public" place.

I would rather talk in person then over email or phone. I promise that I will be respectful of all limits or boundaries and never be pushy or aggressive and I expect the same. Please send a note and include: A little bit about who and where you are. Where you would like to meet and how I can recognize you (pictures would be great).