It's hard to find what you're really looking for if you're not actually honest on here. So I'm taking a different approach and laying it all on the line. I am looking for a serious relationship with someone who has the same interests as me. On the outside, I'm a normal guy. I'm a dad, have a really good job, enjoy all kinds of activities...summer and winter. Rarely sitting around doing nothing and have lots of things on the go all the time. But something is missing, a per to share it with. Finding that per is easy, but I'm looking for just a bit more than that. The secret life I live is extremely sexual. I'm looking for someone who is looking for a loving committed relationship, but is also very adventurous sexually. Interested in a swinging but safe lifestyle, visiting adult clubs once and a while and is also sexually into women. This lifestyle can work with the right per, but are you out there. I do believe that a normal relationship can be had with a very private lifestyle in the background. Let me be clear tho, I'm not looking for a friend with benefits or one night stands or anything else like that. And I'm not looking to jump right into this lifestyle either. I would like to get to know you first, and if what I've mentioned is something you'd like to have in your life, we can start exploring that when the time is right. You must be sexy and attractive to me, clean, decently employed, independent, uninhibited and absolutely comfortable with yourself. So if you think you might be looking for the same, send me a message. You never know what might come of it.