I am Rod, 42 straight and Dawn is 39 bi but prefers girls. We have been swingers since 2007. We have swinger parties in our home and we also attend parties elsewhere. We like camping, hiking, boating, on and off road motorcycles, 4x4 muddin, rock crawling and trail driving, swimming, movies in and out of the house, swinging, zoos, museums, tractor pulls, rodeo, raising animals of all kinds including fish, gardening, and many other things. We have a lot of different pets. We live in the country and raise rabbits, sheep, donkeys and goats, but plan to expand. I drive truck and travel all over the USA. Dawn does the books for the trucking company and is an author. She travels on the truck as much as possible. We are both dominant.

My Ideal Person 4-13-13 updated

We are seeking a young lady over 18, but under 35 to be part of our life and home. We are willing to make an exception on age depending on the girl, but must be over 18. Personality and a good connection is the most important thing to us. 100% honesty is key. Tell the truth and we will believe anything you say, lie once and we can not trust anything you say. We do not care where you live, we can come to you to meet and see how the connection goes. If all is well we will figure out how to get you moved to our home in Idaho. If things do not work out we will help you get on your feet or moved back where you came from. Sex is important, but not everything. You must have a positive and cheerful attitude. No smoking, but drinking in moderation is fine. We do not allow illegal drugs on our property. You must have a drivers license or be willing to get one as soon as you move in.
For a live in we would like them to be open to most things, but we do respect boundaries. A true obedient slave would be great, but it is not necessary. It does have to be a girl who can take care of things at home when we are on the road trucking, but submit to us when we are home and follow orders when we are gone. She must be intelligent as dumb girls tend to irritate us. Her input when requested should be valuable. She must get along with and not cause problems with others in the home. We have 2 adult children who live with us. One that works for the company and one on disability. She must be healthy with no psychological issues that require medication. We all have our issues, but we need a girl we can trust. She will be a life partner for us so it would be good if that is what she is looking for. She cannot be a baby girl, we are not going to be mommy and daddy to her. She must be willing to work in the family business and take care of the house, cook, clean, care for animals. We would prefer a girl who is willing to learn new things in all aspects of life. Follow through and doing what you say you will is important. Our live in must be bi and willing to play with others if we so chose. Rod likes to be called Master, but Dawn only likes to be called Mistress during sex. She should never call me sir. If she is a true owned slave it would be good for her to be able to handle physical punishment. A slave will have much less freedom than a live in girlfriend but will serve the same purpose in the household. Rod is pretty open as far as looks go but Dawn is picky. The problem is Dawn's taste in physical appearance tends to shift from day to day. Dawn rarely likes round faces. never likes girls that are too skinny or obese. He almost always like the girls Dawn approves of but she only likes about 35% of what he likes. As we have stated before personality is more important than looks but if we can have the look we like also that is a bonus. Race is not important. We both have a preference for darker skinned girls but we like most as long as they have a great personality. He is partial to redhead's with pale skin but she really doesn't like that look. We don't want to narrow things down too much with appearance because we both want somebody we can get along with, with personality and attitude. We would however like her to be as close to our ideal girl in looks as possible as long as the personality is right. Feel free to ask as many questions as you need to so we can narrow the search down for you. It is very hard to offend us. The live in must like it in all 3 holes and then some. She should also like most girl on girl stuff but Dawn is not big on kissing and does not care if the girl goes down on her but Dawn loves to eat pussy. She must like toys of all kinds and the kinkier she is the better. We are really not offended by anything so it is a plus if she has some fetishes and kinks that most people do not even talk about. We never judge and no means no. Rules will be outlined before she can move in. Hers and ours. Honesty and open communication is foremost important in any relationship. DP is a huge plus even if it is just me and Dawn because our strapon collection is extensive from small to very large. Another plus would be a love for insertions ( anything you can imagine ) but again not a deal breaker. The live in will be treated like everyone else when she does wrong. ass chewing and retraining. If she is slave/BDSM/masochist type it will depend on her limits. We can go as hard core as she will allow. A true slave would have no say in her level of punishment. We are very versatile we can go from mild to insane depending on our partner. If we ever add more to the house each girl will be treated as her own. She is a sub in the house so will not have a say in how the house is run or what position she will take or if we add more to the mix. We will always try to make sure everyone clicks as best possible. Thick is ok just not too thick or obese and pretty. Average to large but not gigantic breasts, no tiny nipples large aureola a plus and dark. Round ass, but not too big. Theses are just guidelines and she can fall outside them as long as the personality is good.

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A few definitions from ( Glossary of Polyamory Terms ) if you are curious. We can give you the link if you contact us but Craigslist will not allow links in a post. We have no expectations and there is no obligation on either part if you just have questions.

TRIAD: 1. A polyamorous relationship composed of three people. 2. A union or group of three. Usage: In the sense of Def. 1, generally, the word triad is most often applied to a relationship in which each of the three people is sexually and emotionally involved with all the other members of the triad, as may be the case in a triad consisting of one man and two bisexual women or one woman and two bisexual men; however, it is sometimes also applied to vee relationships.

POLYAMORY: (Literally, poly many + amor love) The state or practice of maintaining multiple sexual and/or romantic relationships simultaneously, with the full knowledge and consent of all the people involved. Polyamorous: of or related to the practice of polyamory, as in polyamorous relationship: a relationship involving more than two people, or open to involvement by more than two people; polyamorous person: a person who prefers or is open to romantic relationships with more than one partner simultaneously. Contrast monogamy; See related polyfidelity, triad, quad, vee, N, polygamy, polygyny, polyandry, swinging, responsible non-monogamy. Commentary: There is some debate over the origin of the word. The Oxford English Dictionary attributes the word to Jennifer Wesp, who founded the newsgroup alt.polyamory in 1992. The term polyamorous is often attributed to Morning Glory Zell, who used it to describe situations in which a person engages in multiple loving, committed relationships simultaneously in the essay "A Boquet of Lovers." It appears that both people coined the term independently and simultaneously. Polyamory is not necessarily related directly to marriage or to polygamy; a person may have no spouse or only one spouse and still be polyamorous. Many people use the term "polyamory" to describe only those relationships in which a person has multiple loving partners; some people have extended the term to include relationships in which a person has multiple sexual partners regardless of the emotional component or degree of commitment between them, though this meaning was not a part of Morning Glory Zell's original intent for the word. In 1992, when the editors of the Oxford English Dictionary contacted Morning Glory Zell to ask for a formal definition and background of the word; part of her response was "The two essential ingredients of the concept of "polyamory" are "more than one" and "loving." That is, it is expected that the people in such relationships have a loving emotional bond, are involved in each other's lives multi-dimensionally, and care for each other. This term is not intended to apply to merely casual recreational sex, anonymous orgies, one-night stands, pick-ups, prostitution, "cheating," serial monogamy, or the popular definition of swinging as "mate-swapping" parties."

SWINGING: The practice of having multiple sexual partners outside of an existing romantic relationship, most often with the understanding that the focus of those relationships is primarily sexual rather than romantic or emotionally intimate. See also friends-first swinging, closed swinging, closed-group swinging, swing club. Commentary: The common perception of swinging is that those who engage in this behavior have sex outside of their existing relationship purely for recreation, and that emotional bonds or emotional intimacy are specifically excluded. This is true in some cases, and in fact some swing clubs specifically prohibit people from carrying on friendships or relationships outside the club. However, in practice swinging is much more nuanced, and people who self-identify as swingers can and sometimes do form close emotional relationships with their partners. Many people in both the swinging and polyamorous communities, though not all, see swinging and polyamory as two ends of a continuum, different in degree of intent, focus, and emphasis on romantic and emotional relationships rather than different in kind.

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What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
many

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Rod would like to be pamperd by a large group of my female
slaves controled by my wife the slave misstress Dawn. Dawn
likes Rod's fantasy.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Fisting, Massage, you name it

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
many

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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