need someone that isn't pushy We are a professional couple looking for one man to help us with fantasy fulfillment that involves two men. We aren’t “swingers”, but we obviously are sexually open. We both enjoy some level of watching and being watched. We aren’t afraid to try new things. We have a few toys, but nothing extreme. We are not into pain or humiliation. Please understand that whatever she says goes. The focus is her comfort, safety, & pleasure. We are looking for someone that is respectful at all times and understands that slow and gentle is important.