I am a 38-year old, bi-curious male living in the Western Suburbs and I am looking to explore all sexual fantasies. Now, when I say bi-curious, I don't mean that all I want to do is be with a man. I am looking to experience a wide variety of sexual desires. I want to be with women, couples, and men. One night stands or long-term sexual escapades. Whatever it may be, there is only one important factor: Discretion.

My Ideal Person I want to be with people who are D/D free, who have no emotional baggage, and who are casual about getting together. I live a very busy life and my current lifestyle comes first. I am a very easy-going person and don't need people in my life who are not. Now, let's get into more specifics:

Age should be mid-20's to 45. I am not too picky about appearance but you should take care of yourself and have all of your teeth. In my opinion, it is more about the experience of being with other people and sharing in their sexuality than about someone having a 14" cock or having 44FFF tits.

When it comes to being with a man, I would prefer someone who does not look like a grizzly bear. If I ask "Why don't you take your coat off?", and then realize you are NOT wearing a coat, you may not be right for me. Also, I would rather not be with someone whose "groin area" looks like there is a fire watch tower coming up out of a forest. I truly don't know how people can deal with negotiating through the amazon jungle before they get to the mountain. So, gentlemen, be shaved or well-groomed down below.

Women as well. If you have more hair on your body than I do, we are probably not a match.

Most importantly, I want to be with people who can laugh and have fun. The world can be such a depressing place and the last thing I want is for these experiences to be letdowns. Sex is supposed to be enjoyable. I would like to keep it that way.

If the above diatribe interests you, send me an e-mail and we can talk further. If all goes well, perhaps we can get together for a beverage of some sort and see what happens...

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Want to try it all!

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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